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Dangerous Lies-isons
How curious that both stories above the fold in todayโs St. Petersburg Times are about delusional people trying to delude the public: Trump Won Florida, But Online and at Your Door, his Supporters Are Trying to Force an Audit: The goal is to sow doubt and discord to delegitimize the…
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How We Tied the Knot
The Complimentary Spouse and I tend to crow about our anniversary every year, and thereโs a good reason why weโre so excited about it. When we met in 2002, marriage for a same-sex couple was unimaginable. How we got from there to here is an amazing story, one thatโs inextricably…
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๐ณ๏ธโ๐ History’s Biggest Celebration of Pride โ 50 Years After Stonewall
The biggest LGBTQ event in history1 was exactly two years ago today โ and the Complimentary Spouse and I were there! More than five million people participated in WorldPride. It was legendary. The parade had hundreds of floats, thousands of marchers, and at least three million gallons of glitter. Hereโs…
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๐ณ๏ธโ๐ Animal Magnetism
Animals can be gay! Scientists have observed same-sex behavior, including pair bonding and parenting, in many species. My favorite same-sex animal couple is Roy and Silo, a pair of chinstrap penguins at the Central Park Zoo. When an opposite-sex penguin couple couldnโt take care of a second egg, Roy and…
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๐ณ๏ธโ๐ Where It all Began
Anything I write about the Stonewall Riots, which began 52 years ago today, will pale in comparison to what others have said. Let’s just say that the shot glass heard ’round the world changed millions of lives for the better.
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๐ณ๏ธโ๐ Before Stonewall
While Stonewall was the event that galvanized the LGBT rights movement, there were many organizations advocating for equality before the first brick was thrown. Two of the most famous are the Mattachine Society, founded in 1950 to support gay men, and the Daughters of Bilitis, founded in 1955 for lesbians.…
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๐ณ๏ธโ๐ Marriage Equality at Last
Six years ago today, the Supreme Court ruled for marriage equality in Obergefell v. Hodges. Itโs hard to describe to straight people exactly how momentous this was. This passage is one of the most profound things I have ever read: โNo union is more profound than marriage, for it embodies…
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๐ณ๏ธโ๐ Sickening
In 1973, the American Psychiatric Association removed homosexuality from its list of mental illnesses. Before that watershed decision, LGBTQ people were seen as sick people in need of a cure. Today, the medical community is often at the forefront of the fight for fair and fact-based healthcare for gays, lesbians,…
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๐ณ๏ธโ๐ The UpStairs Lounge Massacre
Today is the 48th anniversary of the UpStairs Lounge massacre. The UpStairs Lounge was a gay bar in the French Quarter of New Orleans. Someone set fire to the bar, and 32 people died from fire or asphyxiation. It is believed, but not confirmed, that the arsonist was a gay…
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๐ณ๏ธโ๐ Go Back to Political Party City Where You Belong
When people say โboth political parties are essentially the same,โ I just want to cut a bitch. When it comes to LGBTQ people, there is an enormous rift between Democrats and Republicans. In 1980 โ yes, 41 years ago โ the Democratic National Committee became the major first party to…


