• The Four Questions Quieren mĆ”s Cerveza, por Favor

    What is Dave wearing today? Dave is wearing a lightweight blue button-down short sleeve shirt and a pair of light gray shorts. How does Dave feel today? Dave is ecstatic. What are the factors affecting Daveā€™s mood today? Dave and the Complimentary Spouse made it out to Casa de Campo…

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  • The Four Questions Have Landed

    What is Dave wearing today? Dave is lounging around in underpants and a T-shirt after wearing the same clothes for 36 hours. How does Dave feel today? Dave is tired and happy. What are the factors affecting Daveā€™s mood today? Dave and the Complimentary Spouse have finally made it to Madrid…

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  • The Four Questions Are Leaving on a Jet Plane

    What is Dave wearing today? Dave is monochromatic today in a lightweight black Nike shirt, a lightweight light gray zip-up hoodie, a pair of dark gray travel pants, and white Stan Smiths. How does Dave feel today? Dave is chilly.  What are the factors affecting Daveā€™s mood today?Ā Dave and theĀ Complimentary SpouseĀ are in…

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  • The Four Questions on the Fourth of July

    What is Dave wearing today? Dave is wearing a bright pink polo shirt and blue basketball shorts.  How does Dave feel today? Dave is sleepy.  What are the factors affecting Daveā€™s mood today?Ā Dave and theĀ Complimentary Spouse spend the day lounging around the house, and now they’re just chillin’ with the doggos. Is…

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  • Picture It: The Four Questions, Sicily, 1929

    What is Dave wearing today? Dave is wearing a weird blue/green polo shirt and mustard yellow shorts. How does Dave feel today? Dave is happy. What are the factors affecting Daveā€™s mood today? Dave and the Complimentary Spouse are celebrating their anniversary today. Why is Dave wearing such garish colors?…

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  • How We Tied the Knot

    How We Tied the Knot

    The Complimentary Spouse and I tend to crow about our anniversary every year, and thereā€™s a good reason why weā€™re so excited about it. When we met in 2002, marriage for a same-sex couple was unimaginable. How we got from there to here is an amazing story, one thatā€™s inextricably…

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  • The Four Questions Are Everywhere You Want to Be

    What is Dave wearing today? Dave is wearing a black Lightning T-shirt and gray shorts. How does Dave feel today? Dave is excited. What are the factors affecting Daveā€™s mood today?Ā Dave and theĀ Complimentary SpouseĀ are waiting for tonightā€™s big game ā€” a win means the Lightning are just one victory away from another…

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  • Where Have All the Four Questions Gone?

    What is Dave wearing today? Dave is prepared for anything in a black polo shirt and gray shorts. Heā€™s also wearing a brand new pair of Stan Smiths. How does Dave feel today? Dave feels full.  What are the factors affecting Daveā€™s mood today?Ā Dave and the Complimentary Spouse had pancakes for lunch…

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  • šŸ³ļøā€šŸŒˆ History’s Biggest Celebration of Pride ā€” 50 Years After Stonewall

    The biggest LGBTQ event in history1 was exactly two years ago today ā€” and the Complimentary Spouse and I were there! More than five million people participated in WorldPride. It was legendary. The parade had hundreds of floats, thousands of marchers, and at least three million gallons of glitter. Hereā€™s…

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  • šŸ³ļøā€šŸŒˆ Animal Magnetism

    Animals can be gay! Scientists have observed same-sex behavior, including pair bonding and parenting, in many species. My favorite same-sex animal couple is Roy and Silo, a pair of chinstrap penguins at the Central Park Zoo. When an opposite-sex penguin couple couldnā€™t take care of a second egg, Roy and…

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